Ben Franklin’s 13 Virtues: Week 4, Q3
Resolution: “Resolve to perform what you ought; perform without fail what you resolve.”
- Determine key tasks this week;
- Focus on these tasks;
- Dutifully and purposefully complete each.
Checking each item off my list this week, I successfully cleared the schedule, paid some bills, hit the gym and tied up loose ends, all to great satisfaction and contentment before leaving on vacation. Feeling pretty good, I thought Resolution was a piece of cake. Then, while on vacation, I saw and heard examples of Resolve that made me realize how insignificant my list was.
What would you do if diagnosed with cancer? Without hesitation, my friend’s wife underwent a double mastectomy; resolving to be there for her children. Another good buddy, this one in the military, read me a transcript of a Russian soldier in Syria. All soldiers share a common thread, and my friend choked back tears as the Russian fought until the end, refusing to be disgraced and paraded in his uniform.
Admittedly these examples are extremes; guiding lights in the dark sea of uncertainty. But our lives are sometimes broken down into overwhelming lists and tasks, some important, often not. We work each day to cross items off our list and resolve to muddle through, but at times our lists cloud the truth. Getting the groceries and cleaning the house are not just tasks but in my case, steps to provide love and stability for my children. It’s always important to remember what greater good these tasks serve, and be aware when these tasks become a disservice.
Ben Franklin’s 13 Virtues: Week 5, Q3
Frugality: “Make no expense but to do good to others or yourself; waste nothing.”
- Only purchase necessary items;
- Be cognizant of cost;
- Give special attention to groceries.
Sadly, summer is gone; on the upside, summer was expensive. Perfect time to practice Frugality and get back into the habit for Fall.
Hope you had a great holiday weekend,