Ben Franklin’s 13 Virtues: Week 6, Q3
Industry: “Lose no time, be always employed in something useful; cutoff unnecessary actions.”
- Fully engage with what you’re doing; immerse yourself;
- Shut off distractions;
- Find fulfillment.
We’re all pretty industrious; even on days when it feels nothing was accomplished. But there are definitely those days when I don’t “cutoff unnecessary actions.” Wednesday was one of those days. I spent all morning creating a music playlist for my girls. I got mad at myself for being “unindustrious” but, in truth, I was happy.
I was happy because I thought about how happy my girls would be – they love music. Besides, what did I really have to accomplish that day? Most of my to-do list was crap (put there to feel industrious). The truly important stuff got taken care of without delay.
All my favorite memories in life were born of industry but were not being industrious. Do I remember what I was supposed to be doing Wednesday morning? No. Do I remember my girls dancing to their music this weekend? You bet. If you spend your days “losing no time,” all your time will be lost. If you’re “always employed in something useful,” when will you have time for life, family, and friends? Be industrious when it matters, but don’t lose sight of the big picture.
Ben Franklin’s 13 Virtues: Week 7, Q3
Sincerity: “Use no hurtful deceit; think innocently and justly, and, if you speak, speak accordingly.“
- Such an important one to practice;
- Especially with friends & family;
- Be an open book to the ones you love.
If there’s a thought stirring in your heart, be sure to share it. Sarcasm and jokes are fun, but say what you mean. Don’t hide your intent because you’re afraid to share.